"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Sesera]

This whole being helpful thing is not as nice as you all make it to be. Many players who play other mmos, have went through so much drama and "This is how you need to do it" Pep talks, that that sort of kindness is not needed or welcome by them. And can you really blame them? If you doing a pug group. Just accept that players will do it for fun, and helping them play better might not be wanted. A bad group is not that big of a deal.

If you want to be a clown there is circus for thar. Be happy people give you a chance instead of kicking you right of the bat.