"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Hatfright]

Sure I've slowed down a bit so maybe I'm missing these long raids ... but what raid is taking an hour? Ever?

is Chaos DC that much different than Aether?

I have no expirience with Aether, but probably not. Tho it's possible to do raid in 1 hour w/o a complete wipe, just kill 2 groups entirely every fight and let remaining group do all the job while still collecting all the tankbusters. But in that case I struggle to understand why not start over with explaining what's goin on. Or leave if the speed is not to your liking and bothers you so much.