really fighting and arguing only causes people to dig in their heels on a subject even more. there is more and better ways to discuss and settle issues then arguing and fighting. honestly i have found the community very positive and as i play new jobs even have had people provide tips and offer advice as oppose to just attacking me for being the worst. really though if you arent happy with the game or its rules maybe the game isnt for you. people should play games that make them happy. games are meant to be enjoyed so its a shame if you have had some bad experiences.