It does amaze me that so many people in this thread act as if not being an abusive asshat to people is some kind of unatainable saintly virtue. I wonder how these people even manage to function in any stuation in life thats even remotely formal, work, school, weddings, hospital etc...

Or do they just run around abusing everyone and assume anyone who doesn't appreciate it is some kind of snowflake hypocritical white knight?