"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Nishira]

And i do agree with that that's not my problem here, all i'm saying is since it seems so easy to you to say such thing on anger it must be the same with any other feelings.
Your "it's a video game" argument isn't relevant either, because like anger there is a ton of ppl even here that will say that they're stressed / anxious or feel sadness over a videogame, and not once i've seen someone say something like you did on anger.
If anyone do say something like "i'm nervous and i panick and die" no one will say "Wth it's a videogame dude keep your nerves up" while at the same time it seems totally ok to say such things about anger and frustrating situation, while it's the same thing, ppl feeling stuff.
That's the kind of double standards that do amuse me nothing more than that.

Now that is a really interesting comment, I had never considered it that way. You’ve got a good point, thank you for shining a light on something I hadn’t considered.

As for your other comment, I think I go into a game, and content with others in it, with a mindset that doesn’t expect failure or success. Simply a: let’s give it a go and see how it plays out. I don’t get frustrated easily because of that, I accept things as they come and try to be flexible with what I get. I’ll do my best obviously and try enable a success from my part, but that’s the only thing truly in my control. From what I’ve observed, one of the biggest sources of frustrations in games, is expecting an easy win and perceiving other players as obstacles when they don’t give one.

I don’t distinguish between the attitudes and what is morally ‘correct’, after all the discussions on what can be expected of others here on this forum I understand the different viewpoints somewhat, even if they are not my own. But personally I’d always choose the mindset that gives me most peace, and least bitterness, resentment and anger towards others. It doesn’t seem a particularly fun way of playing games to me when those emotions sort of dominate your experience. I’d choose a different mindset or hobby in that case haha. But there’s no judgement in that, more a not fully understanding why people would put themselves through that on a regular basis

[Izscha]

Now that is a really interesting comment, I had never considered it that way. You’ve got a good point, thank you for shining a light on something I hadn’t considered.

As for your other comment, I think I go into a game, and content with others in it, with a mindset that doesn’t expect failure or success. Simply a: let’s give it a go and see how it plays out. I don’t get frustrated easily because of that, I accept things as they come and try to be flexible with what I get. I’ll do my best obviously and try enable a success from my part, but that’s the only thing truly in my control. From what I’ve observed, one of the biggest sources of frustrations in games, is expecting an easy win and perceiving other players as obstacles when they don’t give one.

I don’t distinguish between the attitudes and what is morally ‘correct’, after all the discussions on what can be expected of others here on this forum I understand the different viewpoints somewhat, even if they are not my own. But personally I’d always choose the mindset that gives me most peace, and least bitterness, resentment and anger towards others. It doesn’t seem a particularly fun way of playing games to me when those emotions sort of dominate your experience. I’d choose a different mindset or hobby in that case haha. But there’s no judgement in that, more a not fully understanding why people would put themselves through that on a regular basis

Thanks for you answer, i do not get frustrated in this game at all, most of the time it's even hilarous to me to see how ppl do play and all the mistakes they do on discord with friends and we got good laugh about it.
Betting on how much will die on X mecanic is more entertaining in raid 24 than the fights but i digress here.

Just i do get why some are frustrated with this game and the community as a whole, so it's fun to discuss about it. Cool that you're enjoying the game the way you do.
And i do totally agree with your "biggest sources of frustrations in games, is expecting an easy win and perceiving other players as obstacles when they don’t give one.", you do learn to expect nothing pretty fast if you ever used pf in your life haha.