"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Yvresse]

I've been playing this game for 3 months now and I've yet to experience any toxic behavior. Maybe it's different at higher levels but I've done coils of bahamut 5, Whorleater extreme, Ramuh extreme. All instances where we wiped multiple times in a row, and nobody went raging. I, being a noob, went into Ramuh Extreme as a Paladin Tank, just straight up ran to the boss and started attacking him, because that's what everyone has been doing in 4 man parties, raids etc. I thought everything was easymode. Someone in the party, I believe he was a mentor, explained that raid so perfectly to us, and he did constant call outs 'ok you get orb' 'taunt' 'ok dps go get some orbs' etc etc. and we finished it, that guy like a legend.
And same in Whorleater Extreme, I went in blind. Couldn't understand why I got instakilled. People explained the tactics, were friendly and understanding. We wiped about 7 or 8 times, nobody left. Eventually we got it. It took me a while to understand the splash mechanic and when the 4 orbs tether it's just chaos. But we managed.

And that seems to be the general theme of the game so far for me, I've never had someone be 'passive aggressive' with me, or ignore me or tell me off in any way shape or form. Novice Network as well, heck I asked a question about mining, and this dude whisper me and asks me what gear im using. I told him and he loled because it was lvl 38 gear and i was lvl 52. He crafted me and entire set of gear and mailed it to me. Like who does that???

Lol, I was so surprised. So I have only had the exact opposite of toxic behaviour, ive only been met with fun, humorous, cool and understanding people