I've looked around for any posts similar and haven't found anything regarding the shared estate issues. If this belongs somewhere else please let me know.

To start with some background, I shared a medium house with another player. I was not the owner but i was granted access to everything. Other player cut ties and barred me from retrieving items and GM's wouldn't get involved despite proof of the agreement and falling under their guidelines in their ToS for griefing/harassment. Not only did i end up loosing unattainable items, i also lost all of the time spent gathering and crafting, money, and time to design and decorate the estate.

Suggestioins:
1) I highly suggest that their terms be expanded to allow assistance for players who experience theft like i did or other circumstances where a mutual agreement was broken and resulted in undue stress and grief.

2)I also would like a system (if there is not already one in place) where items in the housing inventory and placed in the house have tags attached identifying who contributed and placed said item. This does not need to be available to the player but i believe a mark of ownership would greatly assist in resolving disputes quickly and efficiently. This could also extended into a log that tracks who added the item, who placed it, and who picked it up. Much like gear, how it binds to players with a hash.

I'd like to know other's thoughts and suggestions on this topic and if anyone else has experienced something similar.