I'm not sure if you'll be able to get in touch with the community team here per se, BUT we here on the forums could probably lend a helping hand!

I know plenty of couples who do vow renewals on their fifth anniversary... perhaps you could do something like that with a Ceremony of Eternal Bonding IRL? Get decorations as close as possible, get a dress/suit as close as possible (would probably be cheaper to make the dress yourselves, and it could be a learning opportunity and make it feel more special too since there's love and care put into every stitch!) and renew your vows under the guiding light of the Twelve. ♥