I would've kicked you in every single dungeon, trial and raid.
Most players will unlock their job at 30 because its something they look forward to, now you have a few sprouts who tunnel vision this and dont know about jobs, these will receive info in Hauke. 95% of them will receive this positive and do their jobs.
Now you have a few strugglers who do it in their 40s and those ... if sprouts, you remind and move through the dungeon with them, if the person however has a 80 their out, why would you allow someone to grief?
On that note if your 50+ it doesnt matter if your a sprout, returner or anything if you dont have a soulstone, you requeue and hope for more luck or unlock your job. This has nothing to do with being "toxic".
The game intends you to unlock these things and reminds you and if you have "msq progress" on your UI it shows you full time that theres a quest. Challenges are usually putting the stress on yourself to prove your own skill.
And here we have what you did, which was basically driving on the wrong side of the road because no one is allowed to tell you what to do or they would be labelled toxic, hoping that every single car adjusts to you and your special needs.
Congratulations for every single healer you met for clearing the troll tank challenge.
You however ... In best case your a troll ... lets hope for that.