What is the use tho of being in agreement with likeminded people if it does not change a thing about what is causing you frustration?

It’s in essence declaring it a stalemate. Nothing will change. Every discussion will be the same. And maybe it’s simply destined to be that way, I don’t know. But to my mind it’s more fun to try to get out of the stalemate situation. For that something needs to change, the same input gives the same results.