I hope you’ll forgive me for not quoting the bits I want to reply to MaxCarnage, I’m on my phone and it sucks

I’m a dreadful noob here, I’m not much better than a Cure III spamming whm in a corner haha. But I’ve played other games a long time, and would try to help if I saw someone struggling with a class I knew well. In that sense, if people give friendly advice, I’d never shut that down. I’m too interested myself to hear it! I get the frustration there when someone immediately tries to protect someone from that. I also know from my own friendly attempts some are just not interested. Others get insecure easily. Some don’t like you meddling in how they play. I do respect that, and I either let it go, or when it’s more about insecurity adjust tone and interaction.

I think, while I understand the choice to not enable that I think, one of the issues is that you can’t send a private tell to someone in your party. Discussing it in party chat may feel like a spotlight on them to either the recipient or others. A one on one chat is just far less threatening than if a person feels ‘called out’ in a group, even if the intention is perfectly friendly.