Quote Originally Posted by Nishira View Post
I still find it tricky tho, because how does one come to the conclusion someone is just really not even trying?
The best and most obvious answer is experience. Playing thousands of instances. Watching other players. Playing every class and getting at minimum a basic understanding of how they play. Duty completion timer. The party list has a gauge under each player with a number showing where they fall on enmity. There’s more, but thats a start.

Rinhi has a great point. Toxic positivity. We should be raising each other up. Encouraging each other. Not excusing bad behaviour, including effortless play. Not shouting down people who offer advice. I’m tired of being told “they’re doing fine” or “you’re being toxic” when i try to offer someone a genuinely helpful tip. Those players aren’t helping anyone. Those players are encouraging nothing positive. Don’t be that player.

I understand your desire to be nice and friendly. That can be rare and sometimes a breath of fresh air. But sometimes, it hurts the situation in the long term. It does nothing to truly better the situation. Got to think long term and not just the moment to moment