That's not our job to teach others anything ? If you cant at least play somewhat right after hundreds of hours of plays it's on you and only you.
Why bother learning anything anyway, that's others job to carry me and teach me something that i will forget in 5 min and be patient and pat me on the back.
If you're at Stormblood/shadowbringer xpac and you need someone to teach you tanking you're the problem not the "mean toxic df players that expect me to do my job"