The thing poeple like you dont get is that you're not alone, it's others time too.
If they dont want to waste 30 min on a daily roulette it's totally fair even more when you have a limited time to play.
It's not up to only you to decide when it's a 4 ppl party if that's long run or not even more when you can take more as a tank, it's almost griefing at this point to force people around you to do things slowly because YOU want it like that.
So yeah i guess Trust system is better for you.