"Swift completion" is relative to the game, not the community

[Rinhi]

I think for me it simply boils down to acceptance Rinhi. I understand if you’d see it as toxic positivity, but to me that implies there’s a meaningful choice I can make that will somehow improve a situation and I’m blissfully ignoring it.

But is there a solution? Will it help to tell people to git gud, to tell them they suck, that they should just stick with Trusts and stay the hell away from DF? That you hate to carry their sorry lazy arses and will kick them from the group at every turn? Will that improve their performance? I can tell you now it won’t. I’ve not seen that make any meaningful impact in WoW, and people get away with it there so it’s been tried.

People’s performance will vary. I simply accept that.

no, being an arse towards those people will obviously not help, but that's not what 99,9% of the players that are arguing for 'this side' do at all, I assume
what will happen is that any kind of advice is shunned because of things like "you don't pay my sub", "but I do it like this and you'll have to get used to it", "I don't like how the skill looks", "I don't like the animation this skill has so I don't use it" and other excuses and yes, these are all very real things people have been told, even on this very forum which, of course, got defended by some people because that's how you show how nice you are in this community
people should stop feeling like advice is a personal insult and attack and accept that the people who give advice do it for good reasons in most cases, tbh

I thought I was amazing on monk till I was like, level 70 or something until a friend showed me just how bad I was and I felt embarrassed and wanted to get better to not be a burden