"Swift completion" is relative to the game, not the community

[Xirean]

Big pulls that make you wipe three times is just as bad as single pull runs. The idea of big pulls is to make the run go faster if the party wipes to a pull like that then it's time to reassess otherwise it's just a waste of time. 3 wipes just sounds painful. It's not about living a little its about respecting what everyone wants in the party.

Sounds like what everyone wanted in that party was for that tank to succeed at that pull.