"Swift completion" is relative to the game, not the community

[Izscha]

I mean, I have high levels of anxiety around new people, I am quiet, the typical "book reading nerd who only has a few friends and gets bullied", yet I have very few issues in DF, or with tanking.

I'm sure it varies from person to person, but I've never really had issues in mmos outside of having to recruit for savage statics, or apply for them. Those are anxiety inducing to me, but I've mostly had good experiences.

Yeah that's what i say, i dont not put the blame on those people they have a condition they deal with it but like if you have a phobia or anything related to people it comes from you, you know that already so why say that everyone else is the problem ?
That's the thing that bugged me in the initial message.