I'm not a fan of the rushing thing, usually it's because I'm on a caster and can't do anything. Then the tank has an army of mobs, healer can't keep up, and we wipe. By that stage I'm RP walking behind them because there is little to no point worrying about anything.

When I'm on my Red Mage I seem to heal more healers than doing damage a lot of the time. I've also noticed healers have a lot of problems with healing DPS. I generally consider them bad players and do what I can to stay alive, alt tab out and watch youtube while I wait for the rez if needed (they usually fail at even doing that most times).