Welcome to Tonberry! Feel free to /wave me down anytime.

Personally I don’t really roleplay, but I have friends who do. I sometimes join in and it’s pretty tame (well, they roleplay and I’m just me tbh).

I’d say the places I meet people is the aether Crystal in Gridania. Limsa works, but Gridania usually feels more…I dunno… safe?

You could just /say around the Gridania what your looking for and probably find something. Just as others said be clear what your looking for and not interested in from the start.