Quote Originally Posted by Aron73 View Post
Here are a few things about me.
I have a tank char, but I also have a lousy memory, so remembering how the dungeon/raid looks like from start to end is simply not possible for me atm.
So instead of risking it, I do small(er) pulls, so we do not get overwhelmed.
Sometimes I have friends with me on Discord that reminds me, "You can take the tree groups here with np," and sometimes, I might remember parts of the dungeon.
Now, why do I tell you this? Because I also don't blame anyone except myself if we wipe not the healer and def. not the DPS, but me and I hate to fail, so take it carefully instead of wiping is a must for me.
Some may think I'm wrong to blame everything on me, but I also have a healer (in a different game), and I know how hard it is to heal an unknown tank and at the same time do some DPS, so in my eyes tanking is always easy whats hard is for the healer to keep me alive.
A wipe a day, keeps the doctor away ^^

Dying doesn't mean you did anything wrong per se, or that you or anyone else is to blame

We're a team, so we live and/or die together. And we're having fun doing it