A wipe is caused by too many mistakes spread across multiple people. Just because that guy over there lost more dps from not doing something than you did by deliberately ignoring positionals doesn't mean ignoring positionals is okay or should be encouraged.
Everything makes a difference and it all adds up. I've seen kills where the enrage animation went out and people already started dying. A DRG not hitting positionals, a BLM refreshing Eno early a few times, a DNC overwriting a few procs, a NIN missing a Raiton in their TA are all minor mistakes that are all things that could've made the difference between kill or no kill.
Mistakes will inevitably happen because we're human but there is a difference between "I try but shit happens" and deliberately not doing something that is free damage.
Instead of saying "someone else could've done better and it would've been a kill", conveniently trying shifting the blame, people should play as best as they can and focus on doing their own thing well. That includes playing positionals whenever safely possible.
Yes, someone could've just stayed alive. Yes, the boss could've been positioned better.
Doesn't excuse deliberately not putting forth effort for things that don't require much effort to begin with. This is not even min-maxing level we're talking about. It's a basic mechanic for all melees.
Even if something like ignoring positionals is minor compared to dying, I find the mindset of "Why should I bother?" much worse than someone dying to a mechanic. They are generally willing to learn and do better next time. I'd rather take that than this mindset.
If someone lacks practice on a class, by all means, please ignore positionals for now and focus on the basic rotation. If someone is unsure if they can safely play them, they should simply miss it and move on with their life. If they tried and the boss happened to turn, well... shit happens. They tried.
That's all fine.
Encouraging people to always ignore them is not. Let them learn instead of dragging them down.