I want to point out my observation on Crystal being "carebear."

My main is on Zalera(Crystal) and I have an alt on Jenova(Primal I think). I have been leveling WHM on both characters. I can say without a doubt the folks on Jenova are FAR nicer and more understanding when I screw up than the ones on Zalera. One tiny mistake on Crystal and you will be hit with the most abusive garbage trash talk. I am not even talking about someone dying. I mean you just didn't keep some DPS fully topped at all times because it will regen itself between pulls. So yeah mileage may vary on the carebear front.