Arguing about what defines a good or bad Player is completely pointless and even more so, getting upset about it.

Every Person holds a different opinion on what makes someone a good/bad player.

Personally, i would call someone a bad player already when he gets hit by the swing attack from the Kyklops in Anamnesis Anyder, because if you paid attention to the Game's attack patterns, you would know that every enemy in this game that performs a swing attack, it will always be a circle aoe with the NPC at its center.

But at the end of the day, does it really matter that much of what others think of you? It's not like youre never going to find a party again in this game just because you may or may not have messed something up.

That's my two cents on the matter at least.