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    Player Caurcas's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lenivy View Post
    Americans already destroyed future generations in the west,Your job is done.
    And btw Bobby is Plushy alt.
    Two points. One, why the attack on nationality? Two, someone disagrees with me therefore must be an alt is a tired counter point.
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    I really don't want to open a can of worms but having been a child that was raised super sheltered and monitored 24/7 on everything I was doing. It felt very abusive at times. I wasn't ever allowed to do anything because of all the over protectiveness. It was downright miserable. I didn't even have a computer until I was 21 when I finally saved up enough to buy one myself. Having your parents consistently mold you into their ideal perfect little angel, being home schooled, alone, had no and still don't have friends. It's very stressful. When you finally get out into the world after being sheltered so much, you then get a RUDE awakening at everything. You realize you were conditioned to be overly sensitive. You let things bother you that society feels is normal. Then everyone is always telling you go seek help because you were not raised the societal normal way. You get into political discussions where you're in the minority and people tell you to educate yourself. Because you were sheltered that much. All this talk about "Its the parents responsibility to monitor everything the child does" is true to a point but after so much of it, it really screws with your mind. You go into adulthood feeling like you still need your parents permission for things when you shouldn't need it. Trust me, having your parents monitor every single aspect of your life sucks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Remish View Post
    I really don't want to open a can of worms but having been a child that was raised super sheltered and monitored 24/7 on everything I was doing. It felt very abusive at times. I wasn't ever allowed to do anything because of all the over protectiveness. It was downright miserable. I didn't even have a computer until I was 21 when I finally saved up enough to buy one myself. Having your parents consistently mold you into their ideal perfect little angel, being home schooled, alone, had no and still don't have friends. It's very stressful. When you finally get out into the world after being sheltered so much, you then get a RUDE awakening at everything. You realize you were conditioned to be overly sensitive. You let things bother you that society feels is normal. Then everyone is always telling you go seek help because you were not raised the societal normal way. You get into political discussions where you're in the minority and people tell you to educate yourself. Because you were sheltered that much. All this talk about "Its the parents responsibility to monitor everything the child does" is true to a point but after so much of it, it really screws with your mind. You go into adulthood feeling like you still need your parents permission for things when you shouldn't need it. Trust me, having your parents monitor every single aspect of your life sucks.
    I am sure it sucks but unfortunately as parents it is either raise your kid to understand dangers exist and do everything in your power to educate and teach them how to do deal with such dangers or do what they did with you.

    The option the others are trying to push make it a communal responsibility is not how the world works. Sure if raising a kid was a communal responsibility then yes probably their woild be no need for helicopter parents but unfortunately many including myself are not going to sensor or police myself because children may be present. Which will undoubtedly lead to more people like yourself being essentially locked up and cut off from the outside world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Remish View Post
    I really don't want to open a can of worms but having been a child that was raised super sheltered and monitored 24/7 on everything I was doing. It felt very abusive at times. I wasn't ever allowed to do anything because of all the over protectiveness. It was downright miserable. I didn't even have a computer until I was 21 when I finally saved up enough to buy one myself. Having your parents consistently mold you into their ideal perfect little angel, being home schooled, alone, had no and still don't have friends. It's very stressful. When you finally get out into the world after being sheltered so much, you then get a RUDE awakening at everything. You realize you were conditioned to be overly sensitive. You let things bother you that society feels is normal. Then everyone is always telling you go seek help because you were not raised the societal normal way. You get into political discussions where you're in the minority and people tell you to educate yourself. Because you were sheltered that much. All this talk about "Its the parents responsibility to monitor everything the child does" is true to a point but after so much of it, it really screws with your mind. You go into adulthood feeling like you still need your parents permission for things when you shouldn't need it. Trust me, having your parents monitor every single aspect of your life sucks.
    Parents don't need to monitor absolutely every aspect of your life, but your internet interactions should absolutely be closely monitored. It shouldn't even be that difficult, because as a kid your internet time and access should be very limited anyways.

    The internet is a dangerous place even for adults; I honestly find it astounding how cavalier some of you are about just sending kids out into it and letting the chips fall wherever.

    Now parents who are so possessive they've scheduled every breath their kid is allowed to take are a different issue; that's not what we're talking about here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Remish View Post
    I really don't want to open a can of worms but having been a child that was raised super sheltered and monitored 24/7 on everything I was doing. It felt very abusive at times. I wasn't ever allowed to do anything because of all the over protectiveness. It was downright miserable. I didn't even have a computer until I was 21 when I finally saved up enough to buy one myself. Having your parents consistently mold you into their ideal perfect little angel, being home schooled, alone, had no and still don't have friends. It's very stressful. When you finally get out into the world after being sheltered so much, you then get a RUDE awakening at everything. You realize you were conditioned to be overly sensitive. You let things bother you that society feels is normal. Then everyone is always telling you go seek help because you were not raised the societal normal way. You get into political discussions where you're in the minority and people tell you to educate yourself. Because you were sheltered that much. All this talk about "Its the parents responsibility to monitor everything the child does" is true to a point but after so much of it, it really screws with your mind. You go into adulthood feeling like you still need your parents permission for things when you shouldn't need it. Trust me, having your parents monitor every single aspect of your life sucks.
    The path to hell is paved with good intentions. Good parents can monitor their kids without ruining their childhood and handicapping them into adulthood.
    Sorry you had to go through that.
    Gaslighting from family is one of the most infuriating things that can happen to someone imo.

    Quote Originally Posted by MatchaokaCha View Post
    pedos,

    They're called MAP(s) now. It's 2021 get with the program you bigot.
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    The problem ISN'T healers rotation is busted or boring...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nethereal View Post
    They're called MAP(s) now. It's 2021 get with the program you bigot.
    I know what they're called now, but I didn't know if some of the bad faith actors here even knew what MAP stood for. Duly noted :P
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    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Remish View Post
    I really don't want to open a can of worms but having been a child that was raised super sheltered and monitored 24/7 on everything I was doing. It felt very abusive at times. I wasn't ever allowed to do anything because of all the over protectiveness. It was downright miserable. I didn't even have a computer until I was 21 when I finally saved up enough to buy one myself. Having your parents consistently mold you into their ideal perfect little angel, being home schooled, alone, had no and still don't have friends. It's very stressful. When you finally get out into the world after being sheltered so much, you then get a RUDE awakening at everything. You realize you were conditioned to be overly sensitive. You let things bother you that society feels is normal. Then everyone is always telling you go seek help because you were not raised the societal normal way. You get into political discussions where you're in the minority and people tell you to educate yourself. Because you were sheltered that much. All this talk about "Its the parents responsibility to monitor everything the child does" is true to a point but after so much of it, it really screws with your mind. You go into adulthood feeling like you still need your parents permission for things when you shouldn't need it. Trust me, having your parents monitor every single aspect of your life sucks.

    Myself I don't think shelter is the answer, but it is the parents duty to teach kids and make a judgement call if they think his or her child is mature enough, or check up on to see if they are doing anything that would worry them. A teen does not need to be protected from sexual content, as it is normal part of life. Making sure your kid understands bad adults will groom them, and teach them how to handle such things will come up should be the very least any parent should do if they let child online. To not do that is being a bad parent.


    And if you kid gets caught, or is not mature enough to handle it. Than don't have them play online games.
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    I avoid posting in the forums since I noticed there were a lot of bigoted outrage over that one innocent post asking for more LGBT representation in the game, but some of the completely asinine arguments that were made here got me really angry and sad that some people still think it's okay to exploit children for their arguments.

    Someone's actions can't be inferred from them using mods when you have NO WAY OF KNOWING if they use mods or not, and what specific mods they use. You do not have access to their computer and it's completely client side as Yoshi-P has stated. So the people trying to do mental gymnastics to connect dots is beyond stupid to me when it's easier, and more accurate, to denounce gross acts for what they are. Not this weird moral crusade about if what people do in their private lives are "okay" by your narrow viewpoint, when you have no idea what they actually do. And the minor stuff? You'd only know about it if you actively went searching for it (hint hint: that's pretty creepy). If you want to hurl disgusting accusations that people are "defending" pedos, then it's pretty sus of y'all to suddenly know about this being an issue when none of y'all actually provided solid evidence.
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    Last edited by MatchaokaCha; 09-11-2021 at 10:04 AM. Reason: That one period bothered me. Idk why lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatchaokaCha View Post
    If you want to hurl disgusting accusations that people are "defending" pedos, then it's pretty sus of y'all to suddenly know about this being an issue when none of y'all actually provided solid evidence.
    Pretty difficult when people keep ignoring a big part of this garbage thread.

    - People are claiming that adults engaging with minors online is a safe way to satisfy sexual urges.
    - Persisting that pedophilia is just a regular fetish.
    - Statements that pedophiles are facing the same problems as the LGBTQ-community, and how that community should show empathy.
    - Normalizing the sexual depiction of nude minors as long as they're not hyper-hyper realistic.
    - Shifting blame entirely to parents, and in situations when there aren't any (living or functional) parents around, to the teens themselves.

    Though to their credit, apparently they're doing a really good job of selecting specific parts to respond to and make it seem like people are arguing against mods or private ERP in general...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raasu View Post
    Pretty difficult when people keep ignoring a big part of this garbage thread.

    - People are claiming that adults engaging with minors online is a safe way to satisfy sexual urges.
    - Persisting that pedophilia is just a regular fetish.
    - Statements that pedophiles are facing the same problems as the LGBTQ-community, and how that community should show empathy.
    - Normalizing the sexual depiction of nude minors as long as they're not hyper-hyper realistic.
    - Shifting blame entirely to parents, and in situations when there aren't any (living or functional) parents around, to the teens themselves.

    Though to their credit, apparently they're doing a really good job of selecting specific parts to respond to and make it seem like people are arguing against mods or private ERP in general...

    Safe way? I'm not sure if people are saying that. What was said that it is the lesser evil. Most of us should understand or seen first hand what happens when teens are with child. The stress, and how much of a life changing it is. How they are treated. I rather them get kicks online than go through that. That is reasonable logic.
    Persisting that pedophilia is just a regular fetish. Not sure who said that, but it is a mental illness. As I said we learn a lot over the years about how people are not wired the same, thanks to LGTBQ community. Someone is not guilty just because they are wired like this or a bad person.
    See above statement. LGTBQ community should be more understanding about how you are treated for not being the same.
    I hate to tell you this but um, you all that are upset about ryne rights. You are the ones not being normal here. Like normalizing? As I said we watch kids get murder in horror movies that is not real, but you all want to Karen over not real naked body that is not even a real person?
    It is the parents fault. We explain why, they are the only people that can teach these kids how to protect themselves.



    The people who are upset about fake pictures, and ryne being a victim need more mental health than these erps.
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    Last edited by Jadedsins; 09-12-2021 at 03:53 AM.

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