I honestly don't care if they want to pull big or small. Big pull? We clear the dungeon faster and I can go back to being generally weird to others sooner. Small pulls? Just means it's easier for me to multi task while I'm in a dungeon/possibly give tips to new people.

There's no written rule about how someone should pull, and to anyone that complains about it, how about using your big person words and communicate while treating others like they're actual people, and not mindless bots you can boss around.

If you ask them to pull big and are uncomfortable with it, no matter the dungeon, tell them you can give tips/that you got their back, and maybe they'd be willing to try bigger pulls. If they don't answer? They don't understand you, they don't WANT to pull big and want to keep quiet because they're afraid of how people will react, or they just don't care.

Sure, some people are in a hurry/want to go as fast as possible, but if you're in a roulette with random people



Side note: Any big pulls in Aurum Vale without blue mages/full party that is experienced there is just asking for trouble. Hell, I actually groan when people try to do big pulls there