Hello,

I'm been only a dps since Heavensward because i was disgusted with healing in other MMO so when i began ff14 i never touched a healing job or thought about it.

After two expansions of nice experience as dps in all content i decided to go back to healing and up to level 59 everything was fine but then this sunday i did Gubal library four times to pass level 60 and it was a true nightmare : the first time at least the group communicated so in the end they did great but the other three ? i could do nothing except endure because i tried to explain mechanics when i could in english and french (because most of the time they wouldnt wait even after 3 wype) just to be ignored or insulted because trying to make my healer experience better and not a nightmare is elitism and being selfish...
Then dinged 60 and decided to try alliance raid and it was even worse....

So sorry for the long story but in the end my question is : it is the norm after 60 ? because if it is i prefer to know so i can stop and not kill my enjoyment of the game.