Increasing number of players using 3rd party tools

[LianaThorne]

Not to parent anyone. But what choice do we have? If I see someone who is performing extremely low, I would talk to him and try to help him.
But just by saying: "Your damage is pretty low", I can be reported for a) using a third party tool and b) somehow insulting or whatever.
So I keep my mouth shut and have to watch when some "mentor" making the situation even worse.

Sure, its not my job to play the big teacher for each underperformer. But its an MMORPG and i want to communicate and interact with other people.

Then that is something to protest to Square about since they're granting it, it doesn't give you the excuse to talk down to someone as an alternative.

Or perhaps don't just say "Your damage is low." I'm sure you can add more detail to it to make it not come off like you're using a parser.

For example: "I don't see you using x spell, perhaps refresh on your skill tips or watch a YouTube video on your class afterwards."

I actually saw that used in practice while running with another mentor and the person took it very well and said "Okay" and tried to use the spell more.