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    Player Rinhi's Avatar
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    I completely agree with you, people love to misunderstand anything you say in this game if they feel like it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rinhi View Post
    I completely agree with you, people love to misunderstand anything you say in this game if they feel like it
    So I am guessing with WoW's comment that I am over the target then. I rather not be confrontational towards others and help spread a more positive message. and the comments of WoW and others are not going to be tolerated anymore? It is a step in a direction toward people relaxing more and having a good time playing the game.
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    Player Rinhi's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oldschoolegamer38 View Post
    So I am guessing with WoW's comment that I am over the target then. I rather not be confrontational towards others and help spread a more positive message. and the comments of WoW and others are not going to be tolerated anymore? It is a step in a direction toward people relaxing more and having a good time playing the game.
    WoW is just a troll, while they do have some good posts here and there, they're usually trying to get a rise out of people
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  4. 08-08-2021 11:51 PM
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    Misunderstood what the person is saying

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    I really dunno what you're talking about outside of trying to help people which I've complained about many times.
    If you make literally any comment on how someone is playing even if you go out of your way to make it sound as nice as possible and you're genuinely trying to help.
    People will still take it as a personal attack or like you're trying to FORCE people to play one way.

    I've changed how I say it to be as inoffensive as humanly possible and it still happens.
    Some may disagree but I still think it's totally fine to tell someone that they should probably look up a guide if they're playing on an especially low level that makes it very obvious they haven't even read their tooltips.
    But people are so touchy that they'll see that as a personal attack too and like you're mocking them.
    With this particular thing people will just read the absolute worst of intentions into it.

    It's like people expect you to be some kind of a mind reader who knows whether they're intentionally playing poorly or if they're genuinely confused or think they're doing things correctly but aren't.
    Just ignoring people who appear to need actual help doesn't make you a good person but people act like it and then go after anyone who tries to help.

    Edit: Also if someone offers you help and are being nice about it, it's really passive aggressive to just ignore them and even worse to lash out on them.
    It's not that hard to just essentially say '' thanks, but no thanks ''.
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  6. 08-08-2021 11:15 PM
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    didn't sound right without the proper context

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kolsykol View Post
    I really dunno what you're talking about outside of trying to help people which I've complained about many times.
    If you make literally any comment on how someone is playing even if you go out of your way to make it sound as nice as possible and you're genuinely trying to help.
    People will still take it as a personal attack or like you're trying to FORCE people to play one way.

    I've changed how I say it to be as inoffensive as humanly possible and it still happens.
    Some may disagree but I still think it's totally fine to tell someone that they should probably look up a guide if they're playing on an especially low level that makes it very obvious they haven't even read their tooltips.
    But people are so touchy that they'll see that as a personal attack too and like you're mocking them.
    With this particular thing people will just read the absolute worst of intentions into it.

    It's like people expect you to be some kind of a mind reader who knows whether they're intentionally playing poorly or if they're genuinely confused or think they're doing things correctly but aren't.
    Just ignoring people who appear to need actual help doesn't make you a good person but people act like it and then go after anyone who tries to help.

    Edit: Also if someone offers you help and are being nice about it, it's really passive aggressive to just ignore them and even worse to lash out on them.
    It's not that hard to just essentially say '' thanks, but no thanks ''.
    What I was saying was people just need to relax a bit and not be so uptight about things, I asked questions first in-game to the community because I didn't know if any changes came about when I was gone and had no ill intentions whatsoever. Also, it's not low skill when asking a question, when I don't legitly know something it's better to ask a question than being ignorant and uninformed which is why I ask questions. Now if that means me asking a question equates to being a low-skilled player which isn't logical.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oldschoolegamer38 View Post
    What I was saying was people just need to relax a bit and not be so uptight about things, I asked questions first in-game to the community because I didn't know if any changes came about when I was gone and had no ill intentions whatsoever. Also, it's not low skill when asking a question, when I don't legitly know something it's better to ask a question than being ignorant and uninformed which is why I ask questions. Now if that means me asking a question equates to being a low-skilled player which isn't logical.
    I think that you missed the point of what I was saying and need to read it again.
    I was agreeing with you on this one point that it's a case when '' the community '' feels like it's very uptight.
    People act like if you try and help anyone with anything gameplay related that it's a crime against humanity and like you're putting a gun to their head and forcing them to play a certain way.
    There's like zero tolerance for helping someone unless they ask for it, but a lot of people don't even know that they're doing something wrong so they don't know to ask.
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  9. 08-09-2021 02:28 AM
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    didn't reply in the right way

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kolsykol View Post
    I think that you missed the point of what I was saying and need to read it again.
    I was agreeing with you on this one point that it's a case when '' the community '' feels like it's very uptight.
    People act like if you try and help anyone with anything gameplay related that it's a crime against humanity and like you're putting a gun to their head and forcing them to play a certain way.
    There's like zero tolerance for helping someone unless they ask for it, but a lot of people don't even know that they're doing something wrong so they don't know to ask.
    let me read it over and give you a more appropriate message, sorry for that I was busy readying someone's responses by mixing in things in that were not about the subject and are being intellectually dishonest with me.
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