And edit: Nothing femm about the Eden's sets, one is a Early Renaissance men's coat and pants with a goofy hat (Eden's Verse), and the other is a Battle Mage look with a long coat (Eden's Gate), the healer set on Edens gate is Roman inspired, although I listed it as girly on my count, it's actually based on historical western men's clothing.
I was meaning, look at everything, and point out what is or is not girly.
Here I went through every caster look on a male, and rated them as I saw them.
Male caster sets counting: 1-80
What I rate the look as- Number of sets-Blurb
Dude in battle mage robe - 14 (Includes armor bits)
Dude in Long Coat - 10 (neck to feet covered)
Pants and short coat - 7 (coat and pants visible)
Historical Pants and jacket -28 (Medieval fantasy, Renaissance Fantasy, and Age of Enlightenment fantasy ie Red Mage and historical European mens fashion)
Steam Punk Pants and Shirt - 3 (Goggles, just what we all want right?)
Steam Punk Pants and Jacket - 9 (Same as above but with a long coat)
Tribal - 15 (looks based on Mongolian Hordes and Tribal peoples)
Dude in Spoky Robe - 3 (Works for the Goth in your life)
Man Witch - 37 (See that pointy hat, he's a Witch Harry)
College Dude - 13 (What a medieval College student would wear at a magical school)
Girly Robe - 9 (You want to look like a girl)
Girly Short Dress - 2 (Steampunk Short Dress, looks cute AF IMO)
Fugly Mage - 23 (No idea who designed these but they have bad aesthetics)
Dwarf - 2 (Beards for all)
Australian Explorer - 1 (Just a funny look)
Cockney Explorer - 1 (and the side kick)
Imperial Russian Army Wizard and medic (1815-1915) - 16 (I read a Fantasy Series once which was based on this idea, these looks would fit.)
Call of Duty Modern - 4 (These looks would be better on a machinist)
Catholic Priest - 7 (I could make a lot of jokes, but I wont)
Chinese/Japanese - 12 (Well they are Japanese, but these looks are a bit on the nose if you ask me)
Sci-Fi Armor - 17 (Mass Effect meet Final Fantasy)
Actually a Black Smith - 2 (Make your caster look like a Black Smith, or Armor Smith)
Greek dude - 6 (Make puns about Zeus, eat grapes and drink wine)
Homeless Witch (SB BLM Set)- 1 (Worst set in the game, needs it's own category)
Male Stripper - 3 (yeah they went there, 3 times)
2nd ed D&D Mage - 3 (Literally dressed like the cover art for a few old TSR books)
Circus - 6 (Clowns, Jesters, and a ringmaster)
Part time Furry - 6 (Want more animal parts than people parts, then I have a look for you)
Sci-Fi greek Russian - 2 (not sure what they were going with, but it's a cool look on the guys)
old boring hooded robe- 5 (Ye wanted to look liketh urianger yn the wakyng sands)