I agree, if they ever decide to add more outfits like that and stop the genderlocking I do hope they also include an options for people to turn it off. I don't want to mod my game to fix that on my screen.
This has nothing to do with "homophobia/transphobia", I couldn't care less about stuff like that, in the end we're all human beings. I just like the aesthethics as they are I can do without men dressed in women clothes. I know some people really find that pretty and want that look for that reason alone, but more often than not some just like to troll and rock those outfits to look ridiculous.