For casters it's not so pronounced provided that it's their own AF. RDM sets mostly focus on elegance, BLM's are the typical FF archetypes (dark and edgy or Vivi, for example), and SMNs are all over the place. Plus for these sets, they do differentiate between genders.

It's where they get re-coloured versions of the healer ones that they end up sometimes with feminine outfits - not so much a problem when it's traditional robes or tunics, and luckily we didn't share gear for the first set of floors for Eden this time... poor SAM and MNK did.

Although with the Cryptlurker set I do wish we had gotten a re-coloured version, because I liked the hood on it better than the mask casters get.