I play on Midgard and have never had a queue longer than 60s, and most are <30s. AFK logging killed a lot of the ambient community you saw while running around in cities and the world. There's almost no one dancing in Ul'dah anymore.

Hopefully it's temporary. The positives far outweigh the negatives, in my opinion. I'd rather deal with a short queue and have people filling the world everywhere.