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  1. #381
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    ZedxKayn's Avatar
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    Capybara Friend
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    Excalibur
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    Blue Mage Lv 70
    Quote Originally Posted by DPZ2 View Post
    To be fair, there are plenty of 13-90 year old players who apparently play BLM without Fire spells, at least according to all of the 'anecdotal' evidence I've been reading in the forums. Never ran across a single one, but then again, I've only been playing for 7 years. Perhaps tomorrow.

    Age doesn't necessarily make one good at video games.

    And skill at playing a video game doesn't necessarily make one good with social interactions. It does, however, seem to involve a lot of anger toward people who aren't as equally skilled, for some reason.
    That's true, but no DoTs on DoT jobs, no positional on melees- we're collecting stereotypes aren't we?

    It's not about video game skills as much as it is deterioration of mental capacities- I'm REALLY doubtful someone in their 60's are unable to understand what a DoT is if it's explained to them and if they don't have disorders along the line of dementia or Alzheimer's.
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  2. #382
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    SomeRandomHuman's Avatar
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    Tabi Fox
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    Mateus
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    Scholar Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Jadedsins View Post
    Maybe, but I don't know enough about how age and the brain works to judge someone. Either way she is a sweet lady, and my husband explains things to her..but she does not understand. Like keeping track of icons and doing rotation and movements. It is too much for her to track. and she does just fine in the game. Husband wants to do Trust with her, but she told him that he will never replace her grandkids. (the twins.)
    She's just not willing to put the effort into it and that is wholly her problem. It's a shame she doesn't because everyone loves a badass gaming grandparent!
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  3. #383
    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    Sofia Bishop
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    Balmung
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    Arcanist Lv 60
    Quote Originally Posted by SomeRandomHuman View Post
    She's just not willing to put the effort into it and that is wholly her problem. It's a shame she doesn't because everyone loves a badass gaming grandparent!

    ...I don't even know what to say to that. But hey think what you want. I will tell you this, she tried harder than I would. :P i'm just glad she enjoys the game and it caters to her.
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  4. #384
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    AngelCheese77's Avatar
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    Bjartur Arnason
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    Coeurl
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    White Mage Lv 97
    Just leave the dungeon. Why? Because 9/10 times if you say anything about their playstyle you can get reported.

    Not worth it


    Quote Originally Posted by EnigmaticDodo View Post
    Title. (and no, the smiths outdated tutorial doesn't count)

    I'm getting sick of running dungeons, trials, etc. whatever the hell content, and people just don't have a clue.

    The usual suspects are out:

    - Healer who stands still, doesn't deal damage, cant even keep up with healing
    - DPS who single targets mobs when you have like the entire dungeon on you
    - Tanks who just sit there and pull 1 group at a time
    - People at max level who have no damn idea how to play their class whatsoever (example: Fire 1 Mage at level 80.)

    What the hell is going on?

    I've been feeling like I'm some crazy elitist just because I have an expectation that you have like an iota of competence.

    IDK, detract me. Thanks.

    Also, Im not going to bother trying to teach people things in game. Been there, done that. You get screamed at.

    TO clarify: I'm mainly concerned about level 70-80 characters having these issues.
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  5. #385
    Player Rinhi's Avatar
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    Rinh Neftereh
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    Excalibur
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    Monk Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    Ah, well I would encourage her to play better..but my wife is pretty similar to be honest. She plays the game more or less like a chat room to socialize with her friends. Fortunately she is aware of her D- skill level..and never uses DF. She plays exclusively within our circle of RL friends.
    like, contrary to what it may seem I don't have a problem with players like this - and would even do content with them because I'd know what I'd getting into (forgive me for using these cold words, I really don't mean it in a bad way!)
    hell, I don't mind waiting 10+ minutes if someone from DF has to go AFK as long as they communicate it

    but when a player actively and knowingly isn't using their abilities, is smug and toxic about it and tries to take a moral high ground over the perceived "elitism" of others when people call them what they are, it weirds me out and says a lot about themselves when they continuously do it
    also, calling others self-centered when they want to help people improve, like what the heck lmao

    also, I find it odd how the husband stops posting and the wife starts posting with the exact same writing and post style :v)
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  6. #386
    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    Balmung
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    Arcanist Lv 60
    Quote Originally Posted by Rinhi View Post
    like, contrary to what it may seem I don't have a problem with players like this - and would even do content with them because I'd know what I'd getting into (forgive me for using these cold words, I really don't mean it in a bad way!)
    hell, I don't mind waiting 10+ minutes if someone from DF has to go AFK as long as they communicate it

    but when a player actively and knowingly isn't using their abilities, is smug and toxic about it and tries to take a moral high ground over the perceived "elitism" of others when people call them what they are, it weirds me out and says a lot about themselves when they continuously do it
    also, calling others self-centered when they want to help people improve, like what the heck lmao

    also, I find it odd how the husband stops posting and the wife starts posting with the exact same writing and post style :v)

    I mean my husband was right. It is kinda self center to want someone to improve that does not want it. Ever gone to the pool, and always that one guy who wants to jump in the deep in. Always wants one of us to join him, even though we are just happy chilling ? Just go do your fun, and let us girls chat. Wanting players to play better if they are doing something that requires them to be better is one thing, wanting them to play better when it is not needed is another.
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  7. #387
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    Caitlyn's Avatar
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    Geistherz Gungnir
    World
    Shiva
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    Sage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    Sorry, what are you talking about?

    I mean if you want to stand around for 120 min in CT and have enough people in your party to force everyone else to wait, I'd just drop party?
    Sorry if I m unable to prove a point. I try to explain as good as possible.

    In a normal situation, you have 24 players who trying to do their best and clear CT as fast as possible.
    You got 120 mins to clear CT. But thats not the minimum requirements, its just the time how long the instance can be open.

    If I m playing as a healer (AST) and I only use my 2-3 healing-speels to keep the group alive, I would fall asleep. This is boring and not fun.
    Why does SE give me cards and damage spells, when I dont use it? Why should I refuse to help other people, when I m able to do so?

    Yes, the game and the devs doesnt force you to anything. But that can go in both ways. The point of "But the devs implemented that way" is therefore invalid.

    Nobody can force players to "git gud". But it wouldnt hurt if they trying to improve by themselves.
    Or in other words: You can keep being Vauthry or you can try being Innocence.
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    Damit du als Queen of heal natürlich deine königlichen Wünsche erfüllt bekommst. ♥
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    Ich finde es eh schon krank, dass du Paules Zitat ungefragt verwendest und ich weiß, dass du nie eine Erlaubnis dafür bekommen hast!

  8. #388
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    SomeRandomHuman's Avatar
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    Tabi Fox
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    Mateus
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jadedsins View Post
    I mean my husband was right. It is kinda self center to want someone to improve that does not want it. Ever gone to the pool, and always that one guy who wants to jump in the deep in. Always wants one of us to join him, even though we are just happy chilling ? Just go do your fun, and let us girls chat. Wanting players to play better if they are doing something that requires them to be better is one thing, wanting them to play better when it is not needed is another.
    Considering the game is intended for you to use all the skills and abilities you have access to in any piece of content your husband is even worse than your friend for trying to say otherwise.
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  9. #389
    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    Balmung
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    Quote Originally Posted by SomeRandomHuman View Post
    Considering the game is intended for you to use all the skills and abilities you have access to in any piece of content your husband is even worse than your friend for trying to say otherwise.
    Hmmmmm...I don't know if it is worth debating this. As it would suggest that the DF content can't be done without all your skills. If that is the case, dang I'm better than I thought.
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  10. #390
    Player Rinhi's Avatar
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    Rinh Neftereh
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    Excalibur
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    Monk Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Jadedsins View Post
    I mean my husband was right. It is kinda self center to want someone to improve that does not want it. Ever gone to the pool, and always that one guy who wants to jump in the deep in. Always wants one of us to join him, even though we are just happy chilling ? Just go do your fun, and let us girls chat. Wanting players to play better if they are doing something that requires them to be better is one thing, wanting them to play better when it is not needed is another.
    it is needed because most of the time a normal trial/raid can't be passed is because of selfish and entitled players like you holding everyone up and expecting to get carried through the content said content like you were in your whole playtime before

    Quote Originally Posted by Jadedsins View Post
    Hmmmmm...I don't know if it is worth debating this. As it would suggest that the DF content can't be done without all your skills. If that is the case, dang I'm better than I thought.
    you know why you can do that DF content with you playing like you do? because other people are carrying your selfish butt
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