I have to agree, reading up on your job's abilities and looking up a guide and the like does wonders, so I'm not against that per say but all I see here in terms of parsing is self-righteousness and toxicity/ name calling and I'm very much against that.

Unfortunately, you can't have one without the other. Just look at this forum.
Classic damned if you do, damned if you don't scenario. The current circumstances are the best YP could have done.

Fortunately, the actual XIV is really nice!