The bullying on these forums is concerning

[ICountFrom0]

The only time I see threads like this "people complaining about the community" it invariably ends up that they're attention seeking victims who simply can't let go of the idea that their opinion has to be heard and accepted.
Not everyone will agree with you, and you can't make them. If they don't like what you have to say, doubling down and complaining about that won't do you any good.

Specially when those opinion contain "1 is prime" and "november isn't fall".

[Kaoru_Nagisa]

Real talk - I've been on these forums for quite some few years. Frequent posters are fairly known to me just from seeing them often around threads. You are one of them.

In all the years I've been on this forum, all I've really seen from you is... questionable takes, oversensitivity to non-issues, hostility towards others who don't agree with a stance or opinion you have and the like. You have never been a pleasant presence on the forums, Damian. And while I personally don't know much about you in terms of Balmung's social atmosphere (as I stepped far away from it a couple years ago), I can only guess if you're an active RPer, you have a poor reputation there too (if you act the same way as here).

I say this not as an attempt to 'bully' or harass you, but to genuinely ask you to stop and look at yourself for a moment. You are actively causing much of your own woes by acting the way you do, and it will never get better - nor will people just forgive and forget - if you do not improve yourself as a person. I genuinely believe you need to talk to someone (someone trained for this), and you also need to distance yourself from forms of social media until you can do that and come back to it with a clearer headspace.

In a prior thread, you said you would be leaving the forums. But here you are, making yet another thread and playing victim and getting angry that your prior posts weren't deleted just because you asked them to be. This behavior is not healthy for you, and you need to actually take a long time away until you can sort your issues out. Especially so if you, yourself, cannot see that you have issues.

I feel you would be on a much better road if you take that time to self-reflect, and find someone to speak with.

[Rinhi]

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i'd advise you to edit your post because you can banned for telling people to get help on here, even when it's completely warranted (happened to an earlier poster not so long ago after they were accused of stalking someone because their forum name was similar to the accuser's former EB and said poster disagreed with one of their posts and accuser had a melty because of it )
i agree with the message of your post completely, though

[Kaoru_Nagisa]

i'd advise you to edit your post

Edited it, though really - if they're going to report it, they'll report it regardless of the vocabulary I use. But thanks for the heads up!

[Wyssahtyn]

Real talk - I've been on these forums for quite some few years. Frequent posters are fairly known to me just from seeing them often around threads. You are one of them.

In all the years I've been on this forum, all I've really seen from you is... questionable takes, oversensitivity to non-issues, hostility towards others who don't agree with a stance or opinion you have and the like. You have never been a pleasant presence on the forums, Damian. And while I personally don't know much about you in terms of Balmung's social atmosphere (as I stepped far away from it a couple years ago), I can only guess if you're an active RPer, you have a poor reputation there too (if you act the same way as here).

Bolded bit is true. As for how they act on Balmeme, from the few times I've seen them around over the years, they're just as bad as they are on here. Tossing them onto the blacklist solves that issue though. Shame the forum's blacklist doesn't stop you from seeing their created threads.

[Y2K21]

Bolded bit is true. As for how they act on Balmeme, from the few times I've seen them around over the years, they're just as bad as they are on here. Tossing them onto the blacklist solves that issue though. Shame the forum's blacklist doesn't stop you from seeing their created threads.

Ill have you know I take complete offense to that because its entirely true. Someone help me....

[Nethereal]

Nothing is true, everything is permitted.

[Juzjuzz]

Well troll or not idk, but if see a lot if ppl against 1 dude right now. Even if he is attention seeking : the guys i see making fun of him in this thread are no better.

Bad opignons exist (heck i said some bad things too but i'm willing to learn) and i see a lot of ppl getting oversensitive when they see one. It's not always the "attention seeking" guys or the "snowflakes". FFXIV players are cool until they dissagree with you, until they see your ignorance too, say 1 bad thing and ppl will get salty fast.

I say : take a break from this forum, go do something else and don't count on others (at the very least choose wisely) if you are facing a problem. Many ppl will gladly let you die before moving a finger if you are in a difficult spot in your life.

[Axxion]

Well troll or not idk, but if see a lot if ppl against 1 dude right now. Even if he is attention seeking : the guys i see making fun of him in this thread are no better.

Bad opignons exist (heck i said some bad things too but i'm willing to learn) and i see a lot of ppl getting oversensitive when they see one. It's not always the "attention seeking" guys or the "snowflakes". FFXIV players are cool until they dissagree with you, until they see your ignorance too, say 1 bad thing and ppl will get salty fast.

I say : take a break from this forum, go do something else and don't count on others (at the very least choose wisely) if you are facing a problem. Many ppl will gladly let you die before moving a finger if you are in a difficult spot in your life.

just check his forum history and you will see why

[Juzjuzz]

just check his forum history and you will see why

Oh yeah i read some things, i understand the salt but some ppl getting salty are transfoming into a new breed of snowflakes or something lol

Eh i'm not going to watch who is the worst guy here, take my advise or leave it maybe it's trash lol

Have fun guys