Why you can't kick people in combat?

[Eris4494]

I don't like part where have to wait so many minutes before can kick them. Had duty start and guy instantly logged out and we couldn't kick him think for 5 minutes.

[Izar_Chillen]

In truth I do not understand why how I treat others is even a concern of others. Cause the reality is I doubt many really care much about others outside of their personal scope or think how their actions may negatively impact those around them in the future.

:P

I hope you do eventually learn to because all I see is that you are reinforcing your strong self belief that nobody cares that much because you currently dont.

Stay safe

[Izar_Chillen]

Just...let this one go. Trust me, it's for the best. Having had this sort of debate with them before it's really not worth the headache it induces.

I dont mind. To their credit at least they were open about having some form of disorder spectrum and engaged in somewhat regular commentary.

[Imora]

I dont mind. To their credit at least they were open about having some form of disorder spectrum and engaged in somewhat regular commentary.

I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

[Izar_Chillen]

I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

I dont have a problem with discussing it with the poster is what I meant. It also bugs me when I see people seemingly gloating about being shit to others.

I also understand your situation . I myself have struggled with varying degrees of personality disorder for many years. There was a point in my life not so long ago that I nearly lost everything including my home and my life. Despair is a terrible thing , but nothing is worse than pity and self loathing and I swam in it.

You're like me regarding keeping my self away when its a better idea to do so. I would rather not be an arse to others either , and I could if I didn't monitor myself become extremely aggressive if agitated by menial things, especially when I was sleep deprived which happened a lot to me.


It took a very amazing person to show me that I was worth something and she helped me climb out of the hole I was in. She passed away last year but she will always be there to help me in my thoughts.

[Awha]

I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

That is the thing I do not use it as an excuse I accept my consequences of my actions I just do not care if my actions have a negative impact on random people around me. Sure if it is not an inconvenience to me I will be helpful but the moment it becomes inconvenient for myself or those around me well yeah I will do what leads to the best/ more enjoyable outcome.

Not wanting to conform to a social norm or status quo is not using it as a crutch I welcome the consequences of my actions I do not do something I will regret or get upset if I get in trouble I stand by my actions. Generally speaking I just do not by my "disorder" as a problem that needs fixing I go to therapy but I am happiest when I accept who and what I am and not trying to fit in with others.

I mean by in large generally speaking I am not considered a harm to others mainly because I value my own amotomy and my own sense of self preservation is paramount. Though as a joke with my therapist if murder ever becomes legal they best run. :P

End of the day my value my own self and what makes me happy over others I welcome this makes me a "bad" person the eyes of many and I am okay with that. Sure I do not have many friends because of my mindset but I am okay with the view I have.

[Velvet_Lunarfang]

What happened to the days of playing a game as a game and having fun. All of you are stressed for no reason. Everyone needs to chill and be laid back lol

[VelKallor]

Why you can't kick people in combat?

Answer:

If it can be abused or misused..it will be.

[Lenivy]

Lalafel players all have some type of dark secret behind their ears it seems.

[Squaak]

Allow us to go, penalty-free, 5 minutes into the duty's countdown. We shouldn't be forced to do more than giving groups a fair chance.
If there's not enough progress made in 5 minutes to make us want to stay, then let us go free.