I don't like playing as not-me. I created me to play as me, I don't want to be someone else. But my issue is something that comes up quite a bit in this game, usually during the "playing as not-me" bits but not always. You're in the instance for 10-15 minutes, and it's pretty much impossible to fail. Then, there's a non-obvious mechanic that you have to get exactly right or you fail. Then it's 10-15 minutes of filler while you think about what went wrong and you try again. Googling doesn't always help because the replies to the questions are often toxic "How cud u fale on that u noob, git gud scrub."
I'm older, like some of you, so I don't have cat-like reflexes. Thankfully some of the newer quests have save-points now and they've added the lower difficulties. But lower difficulty doesn't help if you've misread the mechanic somehow.