Page 28 of 50 FirstFirst ... 18 26 27 28 29 30 38 ... LastLast
Results 271 to 280 of 722

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    Player Rinhi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2020
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    938
    Character
    Rinh Neftereh
    World
    Excalibur
    Main Class
    Monk Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by VelKallor View Post
    If you cant, or wont, understand why I would want nothing to do with such a person, no amount of explanation will ever suffice.

    I do not tolerate that kind of abuse. From anyone. Ever, and quite frankly I am astounded that you think I , or anyone else for that matter, should do so either.
    friends should be there for friends, through thick and thin, through good and bad times. friends are the family you chose, after all.
    I honestly have no idea how to respond to your post because it is such an astonishing stance that I've never encountered once in my life, I'm genuinely surprised!
    I'm not sure if you're a narcissist or have some other kind of complex, but breaking friendships over something like that happening ONCE is not normal at all...
    (8)

  2. #2
    Player
    Penthea's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2014
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    3,664
    Character
    Nettle Creidne
    World
    Moogle
    Main Class
    Scholar Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Rinhi View Post
    friends should be there for friends, through thick and thin, through good and bad times. friends are the family you chose, after all.
    I honestly have no idea how to respond to your post because it is such an astonishing stance that I've never encountered once in my life, I'm genuinely surprised! I'm not sure if you're a narcissist or have some other kind of complex, but breaking friendships over something like that happening ONCE is not normal at all...
    This really is not the same as dealing with a stranger in a game being incredibly rude.

    Also no one should be made to feel at fault for having enough self respect that they won't tolerate horrible behaviour even from those they love. Having no tolerance doesn't mean you cut them off the instant they cross a line, it just means you won't allow yourself to be someone's punching bag. You tell them their behaviour is not cool, wait until they calm down, and then talk again later. No one should ever have to feel like they should endure abuse just to prove how loyal they are. Loyalty does not mean you accept any kind of treatment, it means you will always do your best for a person and sometimes that does mean showing them their behaviour needs to change, and staying with them while they work on that.

    Yikes this thread.
    (6)
    Last edited by Penthea; 05-26-2021 at 08:13 PM.

  3. #3
    Player

    Join Date
    Jul 2017
    Posts
    3,327
    Quote Originally Posted by VelKallor View Post
    Id say it would irk almost everyone,. No one talks to me like that, not in person, not elsewhere.

    Where do you get this idea anyone has a right to hurl abuse anytime they feel like it, and the other person needs just sit there and take it?

    No they dont and I dont. Ever. I had a friend who did that to me once. I disowned him. Had someone do that to me ingame. Blacklisted forever. If you cant get your message across without resorting to foul language or abuse, then dont talk to me at all.



    You have a lot to learn about how to effectively communicate then.
    I just generally have the idea that what a person says only has power over me if I allow it. Someone calls me an anti social atutis I just smile and move on cause it is true. Someone pokes fun at my race I just ignore them and move on. Someone calls me a f**king dense s**tbag and that I should get a life, depending on why they said it I may ask why they feel the way if they refuse to give a response I just move on.

    Generally I just have this approach words only have power if I give them power. This was just how I was raised.

    I know I have a lot to learn about communication but despite my shortcomings when it comes to communicate and social interactions I am doing my best to get through life. I treat others how I wish or prefer to be treated. I rather know exactly where I stand with a person and rather people be honest in their raw form. If that means they have to use slurs or whatever to convey what they feel in that moment so be it. Once again I do understand my way of thinking differs greatly from many.
    (9)

  4. #4
    Player
    AnnaUK's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2019
    Posts
    163
    Character
    Mochi Mai
    World
    Raiden
    Main Class
    Dancer Lv 81
    Quote Originally Posted by Clicked View Post
    Lately I've found myself wondering why I bother running level cap content. Sure, it earns me better gear, but it's not like I can notice those incremental improvements without a parser. I'm on console so I can't even download one sneakily if I wanted to.

    If I were into Savage/Extremes, you could make a case that I should care about my gear so that I can make those clears easier on my group. But I stopped doing PF content in Stormblood because it just causes me to burn out super fast. Regular content is pretty faceroll without great gear so my gear doesn't make or break my party.

    So without any way to notice my improvement in normal content, why should I care about my item level? All I care is that I have the ilvl to enter content to get through the story and that's literally it. I don't even care to get my ilvl up for Endwalker since it'll all be available for Poetics in November anyway.

    I know I don't need to have the best gear for my content. But having a parser, or even being given a grade at the end of a duty, would add so much replayability to end game content for me. I would keep working toward perfecting my gear because I could see the fruits of my labor.

    Yeah I know, no one is forcing me to play level 80 stuff, I can level other jobs, there is side content, etc. Yeah I play other parts of the game. But I really wish I didn't feel like abandoning something the second it hits 80 because I've run out of goals for that job.

    Please add parsers to your game SE. Casual console players would have more reason to play end game content. Item level is not fun to track. Output/throughput is!
    We maybe you could make an fc with all console players? Then all that matters is working together and getting the best gear you can.
    (0)

  5. #5
    Player
    Rein_eon_Osborne's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2020
    Location
    Shadowflare - Ward Miasma II, Plot Broil IV
    Posts
    3,934
    Character
    Mira Clearweaver
    World
    Jenova
    Main Class
    Conjurer Lv 90
    I mean, It's how you poke the subject (i.e. dealing low damage) -AND- how they receive it (I can't believe people often forget about latter!).

    Also, gosh this thread...
    (1)

  6. #6
    Player
    Haru304's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2019
    Posts
    170
    Character
    Atticus Vaelar
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Dragoon Lv 91
    Parsers in WoW just caused stress for me because they were very much anticipated and somewhat mandated. I'm a casual player and I care about my performance, but I do not care about it to a point I need to know the exact numbers out in-front of me.

    It gets to a point where you're rated purely on those numbers and nothing else. That's not the type of community I want to be in.
    (5)

  7. #7
    Player
    JRat's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2021
    Location
    Uldah? I think..
    Posts
    34
    Character
    Jahro Katika
    World
    Siren
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 60
    If the parsers are only used as a tool to improve your own performance then: Sure i would go with that.

    If parsers become a tool to judge other players with then: No. I will not support that.
    (3)

  8. #8
    Player
    VelKallor's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2021
    Location
    Limsa Lominsa
    Posts
    2,590
    Character
    Vel Kallor
    World
    Kujata
    Main Class
    Red Mage Lv 100
    Consider the argument in this thread. Many raiders are coming in and saying they want to not only hold people to their arbitrary standards in their own content, but they want the content aimed at the casual playerbase to also hold to those arbitrary standards.
    They want to be like what they had in WOW, gatekeepers as to who does what content and when and to "weed out" all those they deem "not worthy" of said content

    "This is for raiders only you dont deserve to see it,...you DO need to pay for it though, you need to pay for our fun"

    For the last time

    There will not ever be an official FF 14 parser.
    (5)
    Last edited by VelKallor; 06-15-2021 at 04:59 PM.

  9. #9
    Player
    NanaWiloh's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Posts
    2,446
    Character
    Nana Wiloh
    World
    Lamia
    Main Class
    Astrologian Lv 100
    So if you support parsing and want to point out to people that they could improve. Well hiding your own LOGS or posting on a character that has not see a run in ages. Is going to raise questions about your motives and honesty in this matter. Talking about using data to back your claims then hiding your own data is just being two faced. To those who support parsing and dont hide their data. Thank you for being open I give you credit and a nod of respect.
    (0)

  10. #10
    Player
    xxmiamorecadenza's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    647
    Character
    Miawkwa Fletcher
    World
    Golem
    Main Class
    Summoner Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by NanaWiloh View Post
    So if you support parsing and want to point out to people that they could improve. Well hiding your own LOGS or posting on a character that has not see a run in ages. Is going to raise questions about your motives and honesty in this matter. Talking about using data to back your claims then hiding your own data is just being two faced. To those who support parsing and dont hide their data. Thank you for being open I give you credit and a nod of respect.
    Hiding logs in general is frowned upon. I may not be proud of mine - especially during last tier - but keeping them concealed lowkey makes me looks sus.
    (3)

Page 28 of 50 FirstFirst ... 18 26 27 28 29 30 38 ... LastLast