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    From the WOW forums, shown to me by a friend. A fitting summary, I would say.

    I mean, I can look to my own behaviour in both games. I will organize group kicks to get out underperformers when I struggle in WoW because that is what the game has conditioned me to do. Even if I try to advise, odds are, I’ll be the one finding myself on the outside of the group. In FFXIV, if someone is underperforming, I take the time to advise and guide them when I have knowledge that can help. That little crown by my name lets the person know that I’m actively trying to help them, not attack. I have had a few people say that they don’t want my help and… fair enough.
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    Your behavior in WoW is toxic, but I can’t blame you for it because the game has been rewarding you for it for years. You no longer treat it like a game. You treat it like a job, and you see your role as a manager at a toxic workplace who cuts underperformers so that the rest of his team has less work to do to succeed. That kind of environment is not conducive to a pleasant gaming experience.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VelKallor View Post
    From the WOW forums, shown to me by a friend. A fitting summary, I would say.
    Wait.. do people actually look to the mentor crown for help?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SturmChurro View Post
    Wait.. do people actually look to the mentor crown for help?
    Frequently. With constructive results.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VelKallor View Post
    Frequently. With constructive results.
    Must not happen often then. I guess some players get lucky with the one or two good mentors.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SturmChurro View Post
    Must not happen often then. I guess some players get lucky with the one or two good mentors.
    More than two, Sturm...you'd be surprised.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VelKallor View Post
    More than two, Sturm...you'd be surprised.
    Alright.. alright.. I'll concede. There might be three or so good mentors. At MOST three and a half, because the last one is a lalafell.
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