So sad, instances are the future of FFXIV. You should probably quit now Rokien, you won't like it even in 2.0.

Find a game that does crazy open-world stuff, I hear Archeage has some pretty cool stuff like that. I mean you can even build huge boats out in the open world.

In all seriousness though, the devs are going to do what they feel best. It will be very rare that we change their mind on something, often as the result of a unanimous backlash. You should find a game that you like for what it is, there's so much you want to change about FFXIV that it doesn't seem like this game is one you will like in the end.