Pronouns???

[Wilford111]

And you didn't actually answer the question. This thread is not about accidental or even intentional misgendering people in public/ingame conversations. So lets not derail into that. The topic at hand is allowing characters to pick their gender in STORY content, and possibly adding a "they/them option" to STORY dialogue. If you do not want any exposure to your character being called "they", that's fine. Don't select the option. Adding such a feature takes nothing away from you, because you can completely and totally avoid it, with no extra effort put forward on your part.

I did answer your question, though it was rather vague. I apologize.

Adding a feature like that wouldn't just remind us all of the current political culture war in a fantasy game we play to forget about the real world, it would be an inclination that the devs support the side that I and players like myself aren't on. Which is pretty depressing.

Keep in mind that this is the tl;dr version of my answer. I didn't write all of that for nothing. If you aren't satisfied by the short version, please read the long version.

EDIT: Sigh I'm really unhappy with the short answer, so here's a concise list of points:
1. It takes me out of the immersion to remind me about the culture war happening irl.
2. It's not necessary to add since you can pick your in-game gender anyway, unlike irl where you can't (among a host of other things - see long answer).
3. Implementation would be indication of SE supporting this kind of coddling behavior, which isn't a good thing.