Is there a way to turn off neighbors' housing effects?

[glitteringcosmos]

My next-door neighbor has one of the Valentione outdoor furnishings in their yard (I think it's the fire pit or something) that spits out obnoxious hearts that pretty much make it impossible to gpose in my front lawn. I'd like to be able to turn off that effect but from what tinkering I did in display settings/gpose settings I couldn't find a toggle to turn it off.

They don't have a guest book either for me to ask them about it, and every time I chance to look I'm never online at the same time as them to send them a tell. Obviously it's their yard and they're allowed to do what they want with it, I'd just figured I'd ask the once if they wouldn't mind removing it and leave it at that if they said no. Also not entirely relevant but I water their plants every time I water my own because one time I went over there and noticed all their crops had withered and I felt bad...

Anyway, that's about the gist of it. Is there a toggle for it, and if not, what would be your suggestion about the best way to approach them nicely about it?