After this much back and forth across multiple threads, I think most of the backlash against G'raha is just that he doesn't conform to proper masculine stereotypes, and doesn't exist to pander to masculine escapism. Not trying to turn that into a character judgement on anyone, just, like, c'mon. Final Fantasy has a pretty rich history of characters like that that I shouldn't even need to go into.

Give the poor man his bow back, though. He can be our literal spoony Bard!