I haunted forums of Blizzard games mostly, and while WoW and OW had "bearable" forum communities - there was at least a healthier mix of differing opinions - D2R and D3 were insufferable in some way. Full of rigid, cynical people who thought their opinion was king and were content with keeping things as they were whether for good or bad (D2R especially). I browsed New World forums as well when the game was new, and that was simply a laugh. So much uproar, so many things going wrong. Lost Ark for a while as well, but that place was a bit bad for my sanity so I stopped pretty quickly.
I've started playing PoE a bunch nowadays, and I didn't expect players thought how they said they do there even though I'm an avid reader of the in-game global chat. There's a massive divide between disillusioned people and those who lap up literally anything the developers put out. New league is on its way and some big balance changes were revealed in the "manifesto", and it's funny how they seem to backpedal on literally anything fun they create. The game has monsters and bosses that can come off like a bullet hell game - heck, one of the pinnacle bosses has a mechanic with that same name - and yet they also want to "slow down" players by nerfing their defensive and offensive power as much as possible. They created a problem in how overtuned their monsters have become expansion after expansion, but the only thing they see going wrong is some "power creep" (when players were much more powerful before). And for some reason, a big, big chunk of the players just want to be beat down. They want the game to numb their mind, they want it to make them log on day after day for hours on end. It's kinda pathetic.