Dancer is intuitive and easy to pick up, flows well and comfy. It's my first choice whenever I help out with something and want something forgiving and unrestricted. It can be frustrating if I don't have a decent dance partner but it's great if I don't want to think about timing, greed, mapping and so on too much and just want to play.
Keep things on CD, bunk feathers and Esprit for burst, otherwise push glowing buttons and don't overcap. Very relaxed.
If I'm not in the mood for DF/ PF stuff, saying "physical ranged still open" usually does the trick.

Aethetics are nice but haven't been the selling point for me and it doesn't strike me as escpecially feminine. It's elegant, that's not the same as feminine. It seems a bit lacking in the glamour department due to being so new but it will come in time.