I love Dancer. It's CLOSE to perfect outside of its over-reliance on RNG (Flourish skills, Feathers, Flourish Feathers, Esprit), as it's a nice balance of forgiving if you mess up, and rewarding if you don't. I've been having more fun optimizing our buff windows during burst phases and finding out when I can delay Technical Finish to line up with Potions and when it's a natural delay due to mechanics (say, when half of the party won't get the buff anyway due to being on the other side doing their thing).

As for it being "feminine"... I recall Yoshi-P once mentioned when they were designing the class that the team asked him if they should make different animations for male and female dancers, he thought it over and decided not to. So it being "feminine" seems like a matter of personal opinion? I think I've seen both male and female professional dancer pull off the same or similar moves (except, maybe, Jete? and there's no En Pointe animation, which is usually a female ballet dance move, I don't recall seeing male dancers move en pointe)