Been lucky that I haven't seen this beyond the normal expectations.

Think it's fair human nature, even as fc OGs or leaders to have an unbalanced amount of attention on a small group over the rest. People you hang out with daily or do progression with.

That said every FC without exception has been great in terms of including others or helping out. This from 1.0 to now and across 4-5 servers. Even my fc now which is clearly a small group of friends include me, the loner, every chance they can.

That doesn't discount anything you said, I'm just very surprised