What is ERP?

[Bright-Flower]

I'd say Teppie made a pretty good response. There are of course people who blur the lines of ERP and Cybersex but the concepts are different. ERP is the RP equivalent of writing erotica or erotic scenes.

For me my view when it comes to ERP and RP in general is that it should make sense for the characters and the world they are in, because I treat RP as seriously as I do writing, because to me it is writing and is a creative outlet as somebody who loves writing.

So it becomes about the character and not the writer. So to me it's more like writing a raunchy scene like in Game of Thrones. And if comes to two characters doing the deed I think you have a choice of writing it out or fading to black. But to me that's where it's place exists within the RP world.

But there are people who like erotica as a genre and may go out specifically to do that, which is fine because it's a legitimate writing genre.

But some people use it as a reason just to Cyber it up and I don't object to people doing it as long as they are consenting adults, but I don't consider it the same thing. This isn't people writing characters in a story, this is people using their character as an avatar to engage in sexual activities, but may sometimes use an RP flair (hence my comment about blurring lines). Those people are probably gonna find themselves incompatible with how I RP. But to each their own, I'm very live and let live so long as they're keeping it legal.

From my perspective there are basically two types of ERP.

There are the type who are seeking it out for its own sake, like the people standing around half (or fully) naked in the Quicksand, just looking to jump into some erp. This is basically text porn.

Then as you say, there are people who do it when it's a natural thing for the character, perhaps a natural progression of a romance plot etc. This is more akin to a sex scene in an actual movie.

The line between them is basically one scenario where the ERP is being sought out for its own sake, in the latter it just stems from natural character interaction.

[Payadopa]

Just ignore the guy. They're not used to having different opinions like on reddit so everyone they don't agree with are giant trolls. Unlike reddit, people who have different opinions on these forums can't get downvoted to oblivion and hidden. This place isn't mean to be an echo chamber.

I can't believe I say this but...
...I actually agree with you. haha

[Zfz]

LOL I was wondering what Enterprise Resource Planning has got to do with FFXIV.

[Payadopa]

You could have just googled that, y'know?
It's not that complicated. Pretty weak as far as trolling goes. Haha

[SecretIsland]

You could have just googled that, y'know?
It's not that complicated. Pretty weak as far as trolling goes. Haha

If you would read the OP, I quoted a definition from Urban Dictionary, which was the result of Googling what it meant. I think the fact you think it's weak trolling probably means that it isn't even trolling in the first place.

[Ashemmi]

I'm not quite sure how to interpret this, but if any ERPers can clarify what 18+ RP is like I would appreciate the knowledge! No judgment here. I'm simply curious what you guys do!

There was a fantastic and lengthy response provided as to what ERP (Erotic Role Play) is, I think it's important to note that 18+ RP doesn't have to be ERP. While ERP is certainly a set of 18+, it doesn't constitute the entirety.

Generally, the community flags something as 18+ when it may be a good faith effort to note where content may be inappropriate for minors, or there is a desire not to interact with youth.

Dating and romance for example, even if they don't lead to ERP are likely inappropriate for an adult to engage a teen. That interaction could be 100% safe for work. Some players will explore romantic themes and not conclude with ERP.
Gambling venues are another which the community tends to consider 18+. While allowed in the ratings, the community tends to policies itself, often due to real-world considerations.
The short of it, 18+ RP is indicative of played-out scenarios where an adult morally would find it inappropriate to have a youth sitting on the other side.

[VictorTheed]

Something that if u look like me u shouldn't be engaged in nor asked to be engage in.

We need that 1950s guy who did all the work place videos and was in black and white to explain erp.

[Keramory]

It's the quickest way to get Chris Hansen knocking on your door, that's what it is.

I will say if nothing else, ERP'ers are brave. You have zero clue whos behind that other character and it just seems like rolling the dice every time. Which also kind of makes this whole erp movement on the forums atm a little weird. Of course I'd never be so disingenuous as to say others are actively advocating for this specifically, but basically a bunch of people on here are indirectly fighting for the right for 15 year olds to be catgirl escorts to promote themselves on PF... and it's kind of creepy when you think about it.

edit- I'm sure this will make some dedicated RP'ers upset. Again, nothing against you and I'd hope and assuming you don't want kids mixed in this. Obviously. But the issue is you have almost zero way of preventing or knowing kids are getting mixed in this... and that's kind of an issue with the whole subject in general. It's no wonder the GM's are trying to find indirect ways to get rid of this stuff.

[Saefinn]

It's the quickest way to get Chris Hansen knocking on your door, that's what it is.

I will say if nothing else, ERP'ers are brave. You have zero clue whos behind that other character and it just seems like rolling the dice every time. Which also kind of makes this whole erp movement on the forums atm a little weird. Of course I'd never be so disingenuous as to say others are actively advocating for this specifically, but basically a bunch of people on here are indirectly fighting for the right for 15 year olds to be catgirl escorts to promote themselves on PF... and it's kind of creepy when you think about it.

edit- I'm sure this will make some dedicated RP'ers upset. Again, nothing against you and I'd hope and assuming you don't want kids mixed in this. Obviously. But the issue is you have almost zero way of preventing or knowing kids are getting mixed in this... and that's kind of an issue with the whole subject in general. It's no wonder the GM's are trying to find indirect ways to get rid of this stuff.

I think this is of course where the clause about not breaking the law comes in and I know Yoshi P came pretty hard on that one. I think people who actively seek ERP and advertise ERP venues put themselves at a greater risk and I think it's why YoshiP in an interview said to report them and they investigate. From my reading, there are venues that try to do a lot to self-police and try to avoid this from happening.

It's a risk outside of the online community as well or through dating apps and so on where people can lie about their age. A 16 year old could pull off the look of a 20 year old and I don't know many people in the real world who ask for ID from people they hook up with. How this is seen legally of course will vary from country to country. But for sure, do everything you can to mitigate that risk.

Honestly, I don't know how much of a risk there is, whether it's a perceived risk or an active one. I think the view from SE's side is do so at your own risk but you break the law of your country, you'll have actions taken against your account. I wouldn't want to curb people's engagement of these activities, especially if we're talking ERP as in writing erotica and not engaging in cybersex but at the same time, not want to see somebody vulnerable or unable to give consent being exploited. A scorched earth approach or banning it out right if anything could instead push the activities underground, which could make policing it worse especially as these communities self police and from reading comments last couple of days it sounds like people who run such events co-operate with GM's, so I suspect if in their self policing they find somebody doing something unsuitable, they can report it straight away (people are less inclined if they're worried they'll get banned too), so I imagine it probably works that way, but maybe there is better insight from somebody else. Either way, I think the GM's probably have the best data on this to moderate what's going on, particularly as I expect it's something people report a lot especially after YoshiP said "report it" and he said they have legal advisors for lots of different countries, so I expect what they are doing to moderate such activities probably is going to be the most appropriate.

I'd say if somebody's gonna do it, be confident the person you're engaging with is within the age of consent and they give consent. For me, given how I RP, I'd never ERP unless I know the person well enough and trust the person well enough & it made sense and worked within the context of the characters and their point in character development and story, because I am very keen on what's called the "In Character/Out Of Character" divide, I am not my characters, I write my characters. And some people self insert into their characters and I wouldn't want to do this kind of thing with somebody who's putting themselves into it and that can create all kinds of problems that I don't think are worth it. But I am not so prudish that I'd avoid writing something saucy if that's where things led to.

[Ashemmi]

Honestly, I don't know how much of a risk there is, whether it's a perceived risk or an active one.

Quite a bit honestly. We tend to lean on a few crutches when assuring ourselves that things are fine the way they are.

1) Online interactions are ESRB Unrated.

Correct, because they can't be. There is no way to tell what a live person might say or do. We're not on a ten-second delay with a moderator on the buzzer button, or dead air like in a radio station. It's real-time and unmoderated. Unrated is exactly that, not a rating. It's not some magical pass that allows for Mature or Adult activity. The game itself is rated Teen. Our ToS supports that by stating we should act appropriately for a 13 year old audience.

2) It's only writing, and is done in-character.

Well.. Raise your hand if anyone you've written with has broken separation. Raise your hand if someone has gotten "the feels". Raise your hand if someone projected. Raise your hand if someone grew attached. Raise your hand if someone used I/YOU when describing.

Now that most of the hands are off the keyboard, I'll continue. You can control you, not the other person. Then there is the pesky problem of "Communicating with a Minor for Immoral Purposes." Common language in those laws includes: "An invitation or inducement to engage in behavior constituting indecent liberties with or without consideration." An invitation. Not the act. Merely asking. Let that sink in a moment.

While odds are Chris Hansen (referenced in a previous post) won't come knocking, there have been plenty of arrests made for cybering minors.

If we within the community SOMETIMES have difficultly telling the two apart, how do you think those glorious words will read to a judge or jury.

I too am not so prudish to avoid writing with someone that I have developed a rapport and trust with. Running a brothel where the cost of entry is gil and some very subjective "age" verification, or standing in the 'Sands running off with the first person who comes along. Fire is getting played with there in a big way. It's only a matter of time.

If I recall correctly, a certain brothel on Balmung took heat a year or more ago, having actually included a minor.