Just got done leveling....

[Lux_Rayna]

I give a very strong suggestion: Choose your words more carefully if you don't want people up your ass. Taken out of context, you can easily see why people were so offended. And to that end, you should know that it is understandable. This is a public forum, and it's clear not everyone will know past conversations.

If you want to be loose like that, I suggest a more personal means of communication if possible. If you don't choose to do so, don't be surprised when people ram an ice pick up your ass, metaphorically of course.

I don't care if people do that honestly, but if I say "you got it wrong" I expect people to just leave it at that. I dont blame anyone for misunderstanding, but I do blame them for continuing to misunderstand even after I tell them they misunderstood. Also, I wasn't even *talking* to them, and the person I was talking to did not misunderstand, so they have no reason to ram an ice pick up my ass except to flame for the sake of flaming. Like I said, I dont care if people do that, but they need to leave it out of threads like this. People wanna get into with me they can take it to pms. I love arguing with ppl as much as the next person, especially people who are clearly just trying to start something. I could do it all day.

That being said, yes I should work on my delivery to prevent misunderstandings, but this looseness is just my style of writing. If the person im talking to misunderstands, we will have it out, or work out our differences, however it turns out. Now if the person im talking to does understand, but cheerleaders on the sideline misunderstand, I fully expect them to shut up and acknowledge the fact they messed it up. I dont have to explain myself to them, nor should they demand one from me, simply because the person I was actually talking to already understood.

I would say that if they have that much of a problem with me, they can always PM me instead of trying to derail a good thread. Notice of all people here ive been the most on topic, the rest have just been trying to start a flame war. And apparently, according to these people, I'm the one discrediting the thread. Funny isn't it? Ive been respecting the thread more than anyone here has.

[Issac]

I don't care if people do that honestly, but if I say "you got it wrong" I expect people to just leave it at that. I dont blame anyone for misunderstanding, but I do blame them for continuing to misunderstand even after I tell them they misunderstood. Also, I wasn't even *talking* to them, and the person I was talking to did not misunderstand, so they have no reason to ram an ice pick up my ass except to flame for the sake of flaming. Like I said, I dont care if people do that, but they need to leave it out of threads like this. People wanna get into with me they can take it to pms. I love arguing with ppl as much as the next person, especially people who are clearly just trying to start something. I could do it all day.

That being said, yes I should work on my delivery to prevent misunderstandings, but this looseness is just my style of writing. If the person im talking to misunderstands, we will have it out, or work out our differences, however it turns out. Now if the person im talking to does understand, but cheerleaders on the sideline misunderstand, I fully expect them to shut up and acknowledge the fact they messed it up. I dont have to explain myself to them, nor should they demand one from me, simply because the person I was actually talking to already understood.

I would say that if they have that much of a problem with me, they can always PM me instead of trying to derail a good thread. Notice of all people here ive been the most on topic, the rest have just been trying to start a flame war. And apparently, according to these people, I'm the one discrediting the thread. Funny isn't it? Ive been respecting the thread more than anyone here has.

Public forum, no one person owns the floor. The cheerleaders can cheer all they want to if you aren't willing to explain.

I'm glad you did this time.

[Lux_Rayna]

End Game is supposed to be the climax of your journey up. The culmination of all your efforts and training which are then put to the test against an enemy many times stronger then you've ever faced before. Sure there is plenty of good times to be had at Eng Game and it certainly is a highlight of the game. Yet you seem to want to skip everything in between, which kind of invalidates sharing victory in the end.

Thats just it, there's nothing there in my opinion. Trust me, I tried. I tried really hard. The entire experience is miserable because its boring, uninspired, and uneventful. Combat was boring before the combo system, still boring outside of primal fights and bosses. I've never enjoyed partying in this game, except ONE time where it was kinda fun just cuz of the ppl. If there was something there, I'd be happy to do it. But there just isn't. It needs to be worked on, fixed, whatever needs to happen before I can justify going through the trials and tribulations. I dont disagree about your view, I just disagree that there's something there right now. If I hadn't been PLed when I had, I would've quit this game a long time ago. And you know what? Quite a lot of new players would too, and have. Its bad right now, and I cannot justify going through a long and painful experience just to *maybe* reap some reward or satisfaction in the end.

After all, we're not talking about a complete game here. Whatever its condition, though, a game is supposed to be fun. That is the first step to having a good experience. If something is not fun, at all, there's no way in hell I'm going to do it for hundreds of hours. I've never PLed before in my life, but XIV forced my hand...it was just too boring for me to do otherwise. If they fix the crap inbetween 1 and 50, I will wholeheartedly jump on your anti-PL ship. But really I don't care either way, I think ppl should play a game in a way that allows them to enjoy it. If you prefer endgame, pl to endgame. If you like to learn and grow over a journey, take that journey. I do think if a game fails to provide that journey, however, that they have no right to expect ppl to play through it, especially if they're paying money. And imo, SE failed to deliver for now.

[LillithaFenimore]

Glad you had a blast. Again though...after reading through this thread...I'm reminded of this picture...

[Fionlagh]

Yeah,Exp parties are pretty boring, the mobs die to quickly, its really hard to get that sense of identity that comes from using your class/jobs skill/abilities when theres just no time to even bother using them. and when you have a THM/BLM or 2 or 3... and youre on a melee class... i get so pissed off lol. i like that feeling of discovery.. you know, when you use an ablility and you can actually eye ball the results, and you get that feeling, "aahh, well hell man, thats what being a DRG/MRD/PLG ect feels like. hard to do that in current exp party play. combos can be pulled off , but not consistently. again if you have THM/BLMs , as a melee. you basically have to hope they have MP issues, or you are not getting shit done.

Exp Party play needs work, IN MY OPINION:
balance EXP around longer fights, not 1 minute fights, just make them long enough to be able to enjoy your class/job identity.
give us EXP camps with more variety of mobs, fighting the same type mob for hours just adds to the grind
heres an idea, have random/dynamic events at Exp camps, youre fighting raptors, a stronger predator has its sights on the same prey.
bandits ambush your party, ect.
camp options are always nice, right? tired of llooking at the same scenery, go to another zone.
alot more can be said/added, just some generic/general ideas.

even if EXP Party play become more interesting , PLs will remain, but it will address one reason why theyre considered acceptable by many.
Power Leveling has a place in my opinion , boring exp party should be at the bottom , it can be adressed and i think it will be.

other legit reasons for PLs:
new player wants to catch up to her/his high level friend
unlocking cross class abilities from a class you dont like to play.
player onlly enjoys end game, has a dislike for EXP progression and or doesnt have the time to consistently find/make parties.

i say theyre legit because theyre subjective and even if you argued , theres no black & white here, thats pretty obvious to me.

[Lux_Rayna]

Glad you had a blast. Again though...after reading through this thread...I'm reminded of this picture...

Guilty, so many times guilty lol. But I fully admit it.

[LillithaFenimore]

Guilty, so many times guilty lol. But I fully admit it.

I think we all are Ehehehe. Lord knows I'm like this with my family all the time on FB. Can't keep my mouth shut with them...be thanksful this community isn't my relatives...I'd probably be worse than that photo XD LOL

[Darkillumina]

Great story Zaaku! As someone who turns down PL's myself I respect your position. The fun of leveling is that you meet great people instead of just blasting to 50 to gear grind. Enjoy the journey people!

Regardless, if you need someone for a party look me up, I'm always happy to group up.

I've said this in many of my posts in regards to FFXI as well as FFXIV. If you're standing around in Uldah/Jeuno waiting for something you are doing it wrong.

[Nabiri]

Zaaku, your story was wonderful. It reminds me of many fun times had in parties in XI. I hope I can have some similar experiences in XIV too. :3 Thanks for sharing!

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As for this, I'm not sure where this bitterness is coming from... Shocking behaviour in response to a nice story. I don't understand the personal attacks. If you didn't like the story you didn't have to post here. I don't know what Zaaku may have done to make you so angry, but I didn't see anything worth being upset about in the OP.

And I personally insulted no one, and it wasn't even a rant, and it wasn't even negative, just realistic.

Oh really? *points to quote below*

The point you seem to miss over and over and over again (because your stubborn, stupid, or a troll)

Really..? Is reading a story of someone's good time a reason to insult them? Perhaps you go around just making up reasons to attack someone, to make yourself feel superior or something.. Is that it?

Long story short, that experience is not even close to the norm, and you can stop pretending that it is.

Just what are you talking about here? When did Zaaku say, "All parties are great, just like this one!"? Are you hurt and bitter because you've only had bad experiences? If so, I feel badly for you and hope you have a nice party experience someday. There's really no reason for this bitterness or jealousy though (if that's what this is).

I then made reference to past debates we've had and said that he was missing a key counterpoint to his general argument against PLing.

There is apparently a lot you dont know or understand because you weren't part of the argument.

That's odd.. I didn't see Zaaku arguing about anything in the OP. I'm not sure why you thought it would be a good idea to bring an argument into a peaceful thread. Why start fights? Perhaps you should look into getting some counseling for these anger problems and bitterness.

I was in no way being an ass

^^; I disagree. You were quite rude.

[Zezlar]

@ Nabiri

Stop making so much sense! My head hurts