Quote Originally Posted by Vahlnir View Post
The dungeon rush will only be more prevalent the higher you go. That's just a fact of FF XIV life. I can't really comment on SCH much, to be honest, but I know a lot of former and current SCHs are not happy with what the devs did to it with Shadowbringers. Perhaps experimenting with other jobs will help you find your way. Some can't be unlocked until 50, others at 60. But what you have to realize is that this an MMO. Playing with others might not result in ways you'd like them to. If you are looking for a less rushed and social experience then you may want to look into finding a Free Company to join that suits your needs. You aren't going to find that through the Duty Finder 99.999% of the time. I think it could be the game you are looking for, but you need to have reasonable expectations of the community. And it also sounds like SCH is not for you. Again, I would give some other jobs a go from every role to see if anything clicks. You will never know until you try. Play what you enjoy. Hopefully you can find something.
Dungeon rushing is a fact of MMO life period.